why sacrifice?

When we love someone there are instances that we need to step out from our comfort zone to make our partner happy like waking up as early as 4:00 am to prepare breakfast for the family though you still wanted to sleep or preparing dinner though I'm so tired from work, giving up your pepperoni or giving up your cloth allowance for the sake of your partner's need of a new pair of shoes that's worth a thousand bucks. These are just simple things I choose to do though I wanted to do some other comfortable things around . That's sacrifice. Sacrificing is something you do for your love ones because you love them, you wanted to offer something for them to make them happy. I think it's not a "SACRIFICE" if you do something for your love ones with murmur and complain. It's not a "SACRIFICE" if you're in pain while they're happy. That could be "TORTURE"! It's not also "SACRIFICE" if you ask for favor in return, that could be trading-off.

We can't practice sacrifice in an unhealthy relationship. Sacrifice is always called for in a healthy relationship. Why? Remember that you're two different people who decided to live together with different conditions on living. How could you relate and live together peacefully if there's no sacrifice from both parties? We need to draw a common way and sacrifice our own hobbies, interests, and many other interests. Many adjustments have to be made to make a relationship succeed.That's why sacrifice is needed.